Have you ever seen someone you haven’t been in contact with for ages, but they still remember your name but you can’t remember theirs?
Let me guess you just say “Oh hi” and hope that their name pops into your head, or have you ever said the wrong name to someone, and they had to correct you? Yeah, that’s pretty embarrassing…
But what if you could never have to go through those awkward moments ever again, and remember a hundred names right on stage just like Jim Kwik?
In this blog, I am going to show you some tips and tricks to never forget someone’s name.
Why does it matter if I forgot someone’s name?
I know you aren’t being mean by forgetting their name but what it says subconsciously to the other person is that they weren’t that important.
Think about it, to them you’re saying that you couldn’t even be bothered to retain their name, if you want to start a rapport with someone you have to start with remembering their name.
Because people aren’t interested in what you have to offer, if they don’t see that you care about them.
For example:
John: Hi Samuel my name is John.
Samuel: Hi John my name is Samuel, you know John’s a really nice name, what does John mean?
John: Wow! No one’s ever asked me what my name John means, it’s derived from the Hebrew Yohanan, meaning “Graced by God.”, John is a biblical name, first appearing in its Hebrew form in the Old Testament.
Samuel: Wow I didn’t know that’s what John meant that’s really cool.
Samuel: Oh, by the way, John the name Samuel is a male given name and a surname of Hebrew origin meaning either “Name of God”.
John: That’s really interesting, I didn’t know Samuel meant that.
John: Sorry I got to go Samuel I’ll see you later.
Samuel: Ok John I will see you later.
This is really powerful, since you can be corrected early if you get their name wrong, rather than being embarrassing later on, but please don’t constantly use the person’s name or you’ll look weird. 🤣🤣🤣
Do you know what a lot of people don’t say? What their name means we always say “Oh that’s a nice name” but we never go deeper into something as personal as a person’s name.
The reason why you should ask someone what their name means is, that it will make them open up about themself which is crucial for breaking the ice with a new person.
Another way this helps you is that it gives you a better chance of remembering someone’s name especially if it has a meaningful backstory.
Take the name Elliott, at first it doesn’t mean much to remember but what if I told you it means walks with God, now that sounds a lot more interesting doesn’t it?
Is there a person that you hate and anytime you see them in person or see their name on your phone caller id you sigh and get annoyed?
This is the same tactic you can use to remember new people’s names, the next time you are greeted with a new person try and attach an emotion towards their name, a good method is to use a funny reference.
For example, if someone is called John think in your head John Cena, does this sound silly? Good, that means you’re more likely to remember it if it sounds childish.
Source: https://bit.ly/2Sa1E3d
FINAL WORDS
Remembering names is the most important thing when it comes to people, so make sure to use these techniques and have people saying “Wow you still remember me!”
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