Have you ever had to deal with a challenge in your life?

You’re probably thinking that’s a pretty obvious question, of course, everyone has to deal with challenges.

However, we’ve all had that one challenge in our life that we get seriously frustrated over and no matter how hard you try, you can never seem to get anything right.

That’s when the evil words come out of your mouth, and you say, I CAN’T!

Have you used that word today?

How about a different scenario have you ever seen something you badly want? Maybe it was your dream home, dream car, the perfect business opportunity, beautiful woman or man, or anything that you have just looked at and said I want it!

But, when you discover what it would take to get what you desire it seems extremely distant almost as if you could never reach that in a million years, you start to doubt yourself that’s when those ugly words come back around to bite you.

I CAN’T!

Didn’t you hate those words when you were little?

The only issue now is why are we still using these self-destructive words?

If I was to say every reason why we say I can’t, then I would be writing until I was old and grey, but once you move all the smoke and mirrors it all comes down to this one word.

Fear

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That’s right, I’m not here to argue with you, we all deep down have the thought of things going south and failing.

So, we make up excuses to cover our true reason, “I’m too old, I’m too young, I don’t have enough experience, I can’t afford it, I can’t do it, I’m not good enough for him or her” The list can go on and on.

This kills us as entrepreneurs since our life is all about doing new things that put us out of our comfort zone, which is a good thing since it helps us grow.

But when you start to say, I can’t you’re already telling your brain that you will fail even though you haven’t even tried.

And if you’re in the middle of trying you’re still affecting yourself, since you’re starting to have disbelief in what you do, which will slowly lead to a drop in your performance.

SO, WHAT DO I SAY IF I’M STRUGGLING?

I remember when I was watching a Robert Kiyosaki video and he said that the poor and middle class are lazy, at first, I was really confused, since they work really hard and get a lot taken away from them.

But Robert Kiyosaki said it’s because they say, I can’t afford it, he goes into further detail saying that when you say the word I can’t you’re telling your brain a statement that closes your mind to thinking any further at how you can solve a problem.

What I want you to start saying is this…

HOW CAN I?

This is way better than I can’t, since you’re accepting that you don’t know what to do, but you’ll keep enduring in order to find a solution.

MORAL OF THE STORY

If you’re always using the word, I can’t, then you’re telling your brain that you aren’t good enough, which will lead to you being your own worst enemy.

Think about it, if you have unknown haters who are giving you rubbish all day, you may have friends, family, and, acquaintances who don’t believe you, then, on top of that you don’t even believe in yourself, then who on earth do you have to turn to?

This is why saying how can I? Is a huge advantage since it gives you hope that you can solve whatever challenges you’re facing, and it gives your brain the opening to be creative and plot ways to reach your goals.

After all, we are entrepreneurs, so it’s kind of our duty to keep on using our big brain to make a path when there isn’t one.

JUST REMEMBER DON’T MAKE EXCUSES, DON’T SAY I CAN’T, SAY HOW CAN I?

Here is the video I was referring to about Robert Kiyosaki. It’s called Robert Kiyosaki 2019 – The Speech That Broke The Internet!!! KEEP THEM POOR!

CAN YOU SHARE A TIME WHERE YOU WERE YOUNG AND YOU WERE TOLD BY A FAMILY MEMBER YOU CAN’T HAVE SOMETHING?

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